So I have recently been friends with this girl (I'll call her max) So when I met max she was a really funny and cute person (back in 2018 our friendship grew) and now we guys are pretty close. but I noticed something about her which probably all of her friends do too. that is the fact that she speaks without thinking. She doesn't care if what she is gonna speak from her mouth will hurt the other person's feeling or not she DOESNT CARE. now I confronted her and she told me that she doesn't want to be like those people who lay on their deathbeds and wish to say whatever they wanted to say at a particular moment like wth? I gave her a full lecture on how this is not okay and how this is a toxic trait of hers but she did not listen. She has been mocking me, insulting Me, being racist towards me, taunting me. it's all really hard for me to handle tbvh. I really want to end this friendship peacefully but I know that that won't happen because she won't let me go so easily. She will talk shit and make up shit about me and ofc say everyone how fake I am but honestly I am ready for all of it because I want this friendship to end. Whenever I am with her I really don't feel like talking at all and I just feel like getting away from her as soon as possible (we guys have a language class together) and she sits behind me, I dread talking to her because it's hard when you wanna talk about something you like and in return you hear taunts and mocks. She never thinks before she speaks and that shit sucks. I have always been hurt by her taunts but I never uttered a harsh word against her because I considered her as my best friend but now times have literally changed. Which is why I addressed her as a my friend. Because now I think that she was never best friends with me in the first place, it was just me thinking that we guys were bff's. If someone's reading this then please give me some advice on how to end this toxic friendship. She gets on my nerves all the damn time. Please feel free to share some advice with me.
NorrisFriends August 17, 2019 at 4:25 pm20