At the beginning of one of my school years at my new school, I made a few friends. One girl, we’ll call her Tiff, and three boys. We all hung out with each other and told each other jokes and weird stories, the usual things teens do. Fast forward to the middle of the year and my three dude friends do not want to be around Tiff. And they have all the reason why. She always called our gay friend mean things that made him depressed. She threatened the second because she thought he was talking about her (he wasn’t, she says that about anyone when she sees them talking and can’t hear their conversation). And the final one she dated earlier in the year, but was so abusive towards him that he contemplated taking his life. And I only found out about these things from them because Tiff is always with me so they couldn’t tell me about her. But once they and a few other friends told me what she did I became upset. She had no right to treat my friends like that. I confronted her about it and she says they lied about it, which I know isn’t true because I know they wouldn’t lie about certain subjects. And now she’s doesn’t even care to talk bad about them in front of me. I don’t see her as a friend anymore, but I have a problem. I don’t know how to make her stop being my friend. I know that I could do something rude, but that isn’t in my nature. I’m the friend who you go to to vent and get encouraging words from. And I’m the only person who likes her (not anymore but I am nice to her), literally everyone else at my school ignores her. I just want to hang with my real friends without her there pointing out their flaws and insecurities.
Ya BoiFriends November 17, 2019 at 6:56 pm00